Guess no further... I'm here to discuss about bring relationship(BGR) to the next level(friendship) you might be thinking, isn't it lowering the level of relaitonship if you were to be like friends ? Well, I will explain further in following paragraphs. I guess most of you will agree with me that bgr relationship starts from friendship, so why is there a need to lower it down when you are up there ?
A question to ponder upon. Firstly, bgr is just another title for you to go beyond the usual level of intimacy. Bgr also create addition commitment towards partners, doing things in the name of love. There is a ton more to add on but what I am getting at is that, bgr, isn't a solid fundation to stand on as compared to friends. Friends on the other hand is an amazing group of people that even without the physical intimacy, bond were tied and sharing are as geniune as a white paper can be. Deep thoughts, trouble, worries, blessings were stuff that friends shared among themselves. Good or bad, they will stand by you giving you sound advise for free at all time. Friends will have intentional effort to make time for you if you have something urgent or sad to say, that is what love is actually about. Not doing and pleasing yourself, but self sacrifice for the good of others. Others place before yourself. One that need requires deeper thought to it. Understand and appy it.
Now the challenge of a bgr goes beyond just being physically close to each other, or you may like to add, close from heart to heart. These way, not only bgr is seen as a relationship that is on mere surface, there is a deeper sense of trust and communication level. Bgr can now be viewed as fun, trusting, understanding. Partners must also be sensitive to your lovers sharing. Draw awareness of when to nag and when not to. Advise them with love, compassion and patient. Do not get me wrong, I am not saying these are the MOST important and it is easy to achieve, but rather, its one of the important factors to take note of and continous mindset to strive for the next level of being in a relationship.
