Being the best man isn't easy. Having the prefect hair, the perfect look, the perfect height, the perfect size and the perfect personality. Strangely I though that being the best man only took place before you married. Maybe not so uptight about the rest of the outer appearance but the inner stays.
So about the life before marriage. Some says without the bond, it is as good as freedom. A carefree life without any responsibility. Sounds great ? Could be. Sometimes it become hard to consider that fact that you could get only at time. With most of your friends having family and stuff like that it could be quite demoralizing.
A question ask by a friend before, would you still love your kids as much as you love them when they grown to become a teenager or even an adult ? Think through carefully. When they are young, children seems cute and adorable even when they made mistake can misbehave. But when they grow up and changed. Will you still have the same mindset ? When your child make a mistake, a mistake against the law, will you be able to forgive him. Even to the extent that he took your money and flee ? Came back with empty pocket and ask for forgiveness. Will you still forgive ?
It is pretty hard for me to answer it. If your answer is yes to all of the question. Great. It can be rather hard. But God, could say with confidence, yes. Somebody ask Jesus how many time should I forgive my brother that sin against me ? Jesus said something like thing; " If he sin against your once, forgive him. If he sin against your seven times, forgive him seven times. If he sin against your Seventy times, for give him seventy times. If he were to sin against you seventy seven time, forgive him seventy seven times." The answer is clear. Being Christ likeness is hard. Forgiving is even harder. But we should not give up despite our failure, because our father will forgive us no matter how many times we sin. As long as you go back to him and ask for forgiveness.
